You and I have similar stories — even though you may not own a flogger (yet). I had to work through a LOT of shame and insecurity, brought on by sexual trauma (and aging) before I reached the place I’m at now with my sexuality. And I’m in a magical place. We can get you there, too if you’re ready to take action. You might end up loving me, or you might not, but one thing’s for sure: You won’t be disappointed when I help you release your sexual shame and body image concerns, gaining you more confidence and an improved sex life. You won’t care then that I insist you do uncomfortable things, like take responsibility for your sexual experience, ask for what you want, and tell the truth in bed. Instead, you’ll be thanking me. I promise.
I work with women over 40 who don’t have all day to mess around searching for solutions to their less-than-satisfying (or non-existent) sex life, because they’re busy building a business, writing the next great American novel, taking care of family and searching for a partner (or focused on the one they have.)
They’ve got sexual needs + desires, even fantasies to explore, and they want someone who knows the ropes, who has been there and understands what it takes to shift negative sexual messages (especially shame & body image issues) into positive and pleasurable sexual experiences. And they want it done, like yesterday. Note: I’m no magician, so I can’t change what happened before we met. However, when we work together, you will enjoy the sexual confidence, magic, and pleasure you’ve been longing for.
The only thing standing between you and a pleasurable sexual experience — think physical, emotional and spiritual connections along with orgasms or even squirting (yep, it’s a real thing) — is your decision to take ACTION! It doesn’t matter if you were brought up in a sexually conservative home, raped, coerced into activities causing you sexual shame, been told you were frigid, a limp fish or just bad in bed. And the Ex who said you were undesirable because your body or face doesn’t look like their idea of perfection, leaving you feeling like you’re not enough? Uh, there is a reason they are an Ex, besides the fact they were totally WRONG! You are enough, just the way you are! How do I know? Because I have overcome all those experiences and more. A whole lot more. Now it’s your turn to release the shit that has been holding you back. I can help.
This is about priorities. Focusing on your sexual pleasure, and body confidence is what we’ll do. No excuses allowed. We’re all entitled to our sexual expression and fulfilling sexual experiences, whether alone or with a partner. So get ready, because you’re going to be feeling the results sooner rather than later. You’re welcome.
I’m A Clinical Sexologist, Skilled Sex + Intimacy Coach, Certified EFT Trainer & Practitioner, Straight Talk For A Curvy World Podcast Host, Author, And Women’s Sexuality Salon Leader.
But enough about me.
LET’S GET YOUR SEX LIFE BACK ON TRACK.